Women in Construction should stop
worrying about the glass ceiling and focus on appreciating the glass cage they
are afforded.
I rarely, if ever reach for the
‘gender’ card to boost arguments close to my professional heart.
You can
look through hundreds of my blog-posts and will see, that it never (or really
hardly ever) pops up as an issue, where I acknowledge the fact, that I am a
woman and I work in construction.
I write up this approach, (or
reluctance to accept gender issues within the industry) to the fact that I grew
up in an environment where girls were encouraged to ‘go for the stars’, no
matter of the traditional gender of their chosen profession.
The reason for me ‘reaching for
the keyboard’ on this not very BIM-ish topic this time, is this sudden
surge of companies I see, seemingly elevating their female staff to areas they
were barred from before.
I.e. pushing them through that
proverbial 'glass' ceiling to show that this industry is not sexist any more.
Giving them awards, certificates and titles.
Sorry, but it is. Sexist, The
industry as such,
Again, do
believe me, I am not by nature a good female-rights warrior. A bad cook, a mother, have not touched the washing machine in ages.
Yet, even decades ago, in the mid-1980s,
I did feel somewhat uneasy when I first enrolled as an Architectural Student,
The Faculty I went for, 'the cream
of the cream' of its host country, artificially controlled the ratio of male-to-female
applicants it accepted (‘1:3 in favor of the boys’ – as ‘we must not let
the industry become overly womanly’).
Later, from half a globe away,
and a fully qualified MSc Construction and Architectural Engineer, I also
found myself squirming a bit at the statistics, that showed, that the majority
of female graduate Architects in NZ got registered with the Architectural Board
decades after their male peers or even more likely, never.
At the time when NZ's Prime Minister was a woman, women architects at annual conferences were still out-numbered by 5 to 1. (good for the ques in the loos, nothing else).
At the time when NZ's Prime Minister was a woman, women architects at annual conferences were still out-numbered by 5 to 1. (good for the ques in the loos, nothing else).
Still, I sort of marched on with
my own agenda and plans, for decades, blaming my personal professional
failures on anything but gender, lack of experience (early on) naivety (also)
broken English, immigrant status, no local network, not well enough prepared
for the tasks at hand, lack of technical knowledge, biting off more than I
could chew etc. etc. etc.
But then, years went by, and I
listened, studied and learned and learned and started seeing the gaps in the
profession, gaps of knowledge, experience and expertise in colleagues around
me.
Lack of skills they easily got
away with, (with much lesser price to pay for it)
No financial penalties or
setbacks to their careers.
I can't say often enough how
uncomfortable I am to cry 'sexist',
I still truly (and probably foolishly) see myself first a person, a wife and a mother and within the industry a reasonably good BIM practitioner, a lapsed, once conscientious, competently registered but maybe not that talented architect, now a pretty capable Design and Project Manager with strong international experience.
I still truly (and probably foolishly) see myself first a person, a wife and a mother and within the industry a reasonably good BIM practitioner, a lapsed, once conscientious, competently registered but maybe not that talented architect, now a pretty capable Design and Project Manager with strong international experience.
Only last I would state that I am
also a 'woman'.
Yet, I tread water when it comes
to progress within my career, regardless of my efforts or achievements.
And I constantly make excuses, that excuse those that in fact fail me and the women of the industry.
That, really peeves me off.
That, really peeves me off.
Sure, I do not help myself by
being perceived as obnoxious, offensive, insulting, provocative challenging,
aggressive, disturbing, inconvenient, niggling, troublesome, annoying,
difficult, exasperating and irking.
A troublemaker if you've seen one,
A troublemaker if you've seen one,
Regardless of that (or even more)
, I see people rush by me to higher and higher positions helped exactly by
those characteristics.
And yes, they ARE my male
colleagues. And they get applauded for the same qualities I am shunned for,
Yes,
based on my own experience I do see and smell hypocrisy in this resurgence of
the push to support female talent in the industry to 'shine' and 'reach their
true potential'.
I may be doing disservice to my
‘engineer sisterhood’ by stating this, but my feeling is that the sudden
‘positive discrimination’ is not the answer we should be looking for.
Maybe, we should call these
events for what they are: patronizing PR stunts, and not worthy of us, good,
solid engineer-women.
The first step maybe is that the
ceiling is not the start, but the cage that precedes it.
The cage that forces us to prove
ourselves even on the lowest steps of the industry, time and time again (even
though we were right 'on the spot' at the very first time we were examined).
Maybe we should break out of the
cage first and then head for the proverbial ceiling.
Or maybe even better, we should
leave the industry on mass.
Let it nurture its aggressive,
yet dumb practices to full destruction.
Let it promote its obnoxious,
offensive, insulting, provocative challenging, aggressive, disturbing,
inconvenient, niggling, troublesome, annoying, difficult, exasperating and
irking males until the industry implodes on-itself.
Now, that is an idea, my engineer
-sisters!


